Marriage in Ancient India

During the Rig Vedic period, marriage was usually monogamous, and apparently indissoluble, since no reference to divorce or the remarriage of widow occur in the Rig Veda. Polygamy was however known in the Rig Vedic period. The girls were married after they had reached puberty. Child marriage was unknown and there were unmarried girls like Gosha who lived all her life with her parents. There were no marriage restrictions, still matrimonial alliances with the Dashyus was prohibited. Among the Aryans only the marriage of father and daughter, and of brother and sister were banned. There was complete freedom both to the boy and the girl in the selection of their partner but the consent of the parents was essential. 

However the scene of the Vedic period underwent a change in the time of the Smiritis. According to Manu –Smriti, the lawbook of Manu, the age of bride should be one third of that of the groom. 

From the evidence, we can come safely to the conclusion that child marriage was not at all common until the late medieval period. In fact, the ancient treatise on medicine, Sushruta Samhita, states that best kids are produced from mother over the age of sixteen. 

During the Mauryan period divorce seems to make its appearance. It has been mentioned in the Arthshashtra and Kautilya has even permitted it. The society was becoming polygamous. Ashoka had as many as four queens. The early law text-books have enumerated eight forms of marriage, viz., Brahma Marriage, Daiva Marriage, Arsha Marriage, Prajapatya Marriage, Gandharva Marriage, Asura Marriage, Rakshasa Marriage and Paishacha Marriage.